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Love at First Byte: Internet Dating in Canada
Robert J. Brym, University of Toronto
Rhonda L. Lenton, York University
This article summarizes a report published
in 2001. For the full report, see Robert J. Brym and Rhonda L. Lenton
Love Online: Digital Dating in Canada (Toronto: MSN.CA, 2001), on
the World Wide Web at http://www.nelson.com/nelson/harcourt/sociology/newsociety3e/loveonline.pdf.
T he report is based on two surveys funded by MSN.CA. We are grateful
to Donna Hindson (MSN.CA), Kadi Kaljuste, Ilyse Smith, Selena Gardner,
Jen Koster (Hill & Knowlton Canada), Conrad Winn, Robert Laufer (COMPAS
Inc.), Lloyd McNeil, Scott Rogers, Nghia Tran (Interactive Media Group),
and Jim Curtis (University of Waterloo) for their generous advice
and assistance on this project. This summary is published with permission
of Donna Hindson and MSN.CA.
The Birth of a New Society
It is not often that one gets to witness the birth of a new society.
Yet the birth of a new
society is exactly what is happening on the Internet today.
The society is growing quickly. Numbering 40 million people in 1996,
it reached 375 million
in 2000. It is conservatively projected to grow to more than 700
million by 2005.
In 2005, only China and India will be bigger than the society of
the Internet.
But is it really a society? A society is a large, enduring network
of social interaction that survives by accomplishing five main tasks:
(1) preserving order, (2) producing and distributing goods and services,
(3) teaching new members, (4) providing its members with a sense
of purpose, and (5) replacing old members (Aberle et al., 1950).
Bearing this definition in mind, does the Internet form a society?
We believe it does.
Internet society accomplishes many of the same tasks as other
societies. For example, although control of members is much less
centralized and extensive than in other societies, Internet society
has established governing structures, such as those that regulate
conventions in the use of HTML code, the allocation of domain names,
and user behaviour on specific sites. Similarly, although e-commerce
is still only a fraction of economic activity in the world of bricks
and mortar, it is growing much more quickly than the economy as
a whole. Meanwhile, distance education is becoming increasingly
popular (some universities already offer entire degrees online)
and the Internet has become an important agent of informal socialization.
Thus, the first three tasks of an enduring society – preserving
order, producing and distributing goods and services, and teaching
new members – are all performed by Internet society.
So is society’s fourth task: providing members with a sense
of purpose. More precisely, Internet society provides its members
with many senses of purpose by enabling social interaction in a
wide variety of contexts. Today, Internet users interact socially
by exchanging text, images, and sound via e-mail, Internet phone,
video conferencing, computer-assisted work groups, mailing lists,
and chat groups. Some forms of computer-assisted interaction operate
in delayed time. “A” sends a message to “B.”
“B” receives the message when he or she logs on, responding
when convenient. Other forms of computer-assisted interaction operate
in real time; people communicate by means of “instant messaging.”
The proliferation of computer-assisted communication in delayed
and real time has resulted in the creation of “virtual communities.”
Virtual communities are associations of people,
scattered across the country or the planet, who communicate via
computer and modem about subjects of common interest. Membership
in virtual communities is fluid but the communities endure. They
are self-governing bodies with their own rules and norms of “netiquette”
(McLaughlin, Osborne, and Smith, 1995; Sudweeks, McLaughlin, and
Rafaeli, 1999). Members of virtual communities form social relationships.
They exchange confidences, give advice, share resources, get emotionally
involved, and talk sex. Although their true identities are usually
concealed, they sometimes decide to meet and interact in real life.
In the 1980s, most observers believed that social interaction by
means of computer would be restricted to the exchange of information
(for a review and critique of this literature, see Wellman et al.,
1996). It turns out these observers were wrong. Internet society
can provide its members
with a sense of purpose, giving them new freedom to shape their
selves as they choose (Turkle, 2001).

The Rise of Online Dating
The fifth task of any enduring society involves replacing old members.
That is, people ensure the survival of their society by dating,
courting, orming long-term offline relationships, and reproducing.
With respect to this task, too, Internet society is now beginning
to measure up to other societies. Online dating is a growth industry,
and cases of online relationships resulting in long-term relationships
are increasingly common.
The first online dating services started up around 1996. Wherever
the Internet extends, people now use these services. For example,
China’s Xinhua News Agency ran a story a few years ago about
two handicapped people, one in China and the other in California,
who met thanks to an online dating service and eventually married
(“Internet Dating…,” 2000). By the middle of 2000,
the seven largest online dating sites on the Internet boasted over
12 million registered members and many more “guests”
or “visitors.” Of these seven large sites, four are
based in the U.S. The U.K., Israel, and Canada host the other three
large sites. The Canadian site, Webpersonals, and its associated
Womanline.com and Manline.com sites, have more than one million
members, about a quarter of them Canadian residents. Advertising
revenues aside, membership subscriptions generate up to CAD $450,000
per month per million registered members. Business Start-Ups magazine
ranked online dating as one of the top five business ideas of 2000
and beyond (“Market Overview,” 2000; “Mediametrix’s…”,
2000; “DatingClub.com…,” 2000; Rogers, 2000; “uDate.com…,”
2000).
How does an online dating site work? Typically, any Internet user
may browse the ads free
of charge. However, to place an ad and interact with others, one
must pay to become a site member. Some sites charge a monthly fee
while others operate on a fee-per-use basis. Ads include text and
an optional photograph and sound recording of the member. Members
may correspond by e-mail or instant messaging.
Members create a public identity – a name by which others
may identify them and a user profile by which others may determine
their level of interest in specific individuals. The user profile
usually includes such information as the member’s sex, age,
locale, marital status, type of relationship preferred (e.g., romantic
involvement, marriage, casual sex, online sex), sexual preferences,
and so forth. The online dating service also categorizes this information
and allows members to search for other members with specific characteristics.
For example, one may search for heterosexual single Christian men
between the ages of 35 and 44 living within
a 50 km. radius of one’s home and wanting a romantic involvement.
Some smaller sites are devoted exclusively to Christians, blacks,
Jews, gay men, and so forth (Briscoe, 2000; Crary, 2000).
Four main social forces appear to be driving the rapid growth of
online dating:
- A growing proportion of the population is composed of singles.
Statistics Canada divides the Canadian population into four categories
by marital status: married (including common-law unions), single,
widowed, and divorced. Of these four categories, “married”
has been growing slowest and “divorced” has been growing
fastest for decades. Between 1995 and 1999, the number of married
Canadians grew by 3.3%. The number of single, widowed, and divorced
Canadians grew by 4.4%. With more single, widowed, and divorced
people in the population, the dating and marriage markets have
grown apace (Statistics Canada, 2000d).
- Career and time pressures are increasing. In the 1970s,
many observers predicted the advent of a “leisure society”
by the end of the century. In reality, many people are working
longer hours (Schor, 1992). Among the world’s rich countries,
Canada ranks in the middle in terms of hours worked per week and
near the bottom in terms of paid vacation days (“Mild Labor…,”
1999). According to a 1998 Statistics Canada survey
of more than 11,000 Canadians over the age of 14, a third of Canadians
identify themselves as “workaholics” and more than
half worry they do not have enough time to spend with their family
and friends. Nearly a fifth of Canadians reported “severe
time stress” in 1998, up significantly since 1992 (Statistics
Canada, 1999). Increased pressure from work makes it more difficult
to find the time to engage in conventional dating methods, such
as meeting eligible partners in athletic clubs and bars. People
are looking for more efficient ways of meeting. Online dating
has emerged as a credible alternative.
- Single people are more mobile. According to the 1996
census, more than a fifth of Canadians were not living in the
same census subdivision as five years earlier. Nearly 7% said
they had moved from another province or another country (Statistics
Canada, 2000h). These numbers reflect the fact that single people,
who compose nearly 80% of online daters, form an increasingly
flexible work force, more willing to uproot and relocate in response
to job market demands than in the past. (Dual careers may make
it more difficult to relocate so it is questionable whether married
people are more mobile.) Moreover, a growing number of jobs require
frequent travel. As a result of increasing geographical mobility,
single Canadians are finding it more difficult to meet other people
for dating and sustained intimate relationships. Online dating
is increasingly seen as a possible solution to this problem.
- Workplace romance is on the decline. Due to growing
sensitivity about sexual harrassment in the workplace, it is more
difficult to initiate workplace romances. Increasingly, people
understand that sexual or romantic overtures may be interpreted
as sexual harrassment and result in disciplinary action or suspension.
This encourages the search for alternative milieux in which to
meet people for sexual and romantic involvements. Again, online
dating benefits (Luck and Milich, 2000).
In short, while demand for dates is on the increase, social circumstances
often make it difficult for people to find good dating partners.
Thus, a 1999 Toronto Sun/COMPAS poll found that fully 52% of Toronto’s
singles were not dating, while 75% said they are finding it difficult
or very difficult to find a good dating partner (Mandel, 1999).
A Social Profile of Online Daters
To find out more about online daters in Canada, we conducted two
surveys late in 2000. First, between 7 and 29 November 2000 we organized
a te survey of 1,200 randomly selected Canadians living outside
the northern territories (400 in Quebec and 800 in the rest
of the country). Second, we organized an online survey at the website
of Webpersonals, Canada’s largest Internet dating service,
between 31 November and 5 December 2000. Members and visitors to
the Webpersonals sites were presented with a pop-up window when
they logged on. It asked if they were willing to participate in
the survey and informed them the survey was restricted to Canadian
residents. 6,581 people completed our questionnaire. From respondents
who completed the questionnaire, we selected 185 men and 105 women
who said online dating is “a great way to meet people”
and said they are willing to be interviewed
in depth by telephone. Eleven individuals were subsequently selected
at random from this group of 290. They participated in 20-minute
taped interviews from which we quote below.
The two surveys show that online daters differ in significant
ways from the general Canadian population and from Canadian Internet
users who do not use online dating services. People who use the
Internet at least once a month comprise about 40% of the Canadian
population. However, Internet users are younger, better educated,
more likely to be employed in the paid labour force, and more likely
to earn higher income than Canadians in general. Using the online
survey, it is also possible to compare online daters with Internet
users who are not online daters. This comparison shows that the
two groups are similar in some respects but different in others.
Online daters are more likely to be male, single, divorced, employed,
and urban. They are also more likely to enjoy higher income.
One of the enduring myths about avid computer users is that they
are social isolates in the real world, locked in their basements
alone for hours on end, windows tightly sealed and shuttered. Similarly,
online daters are sometimes characterized as “losers”
or “lonely hearts,” people who are unable to form normal
social ties and enjoy normal social interaction. In this view, they
pursue online dating out of desperation.
There may have been some truth to these observations when online
dating was in its infancy (Klement, 1997). However, our online dating
survey found little evidence to support these generalizations. It
turns out that, as of the end of 2000, Canadian online daters are
sociable and self-confident. Offline, they tend to be joiners of
organizations. They often visit family members. They frequently
engage in social and leisure activities with others. These findings
are consistent with the results of other recent Canadian research
on avid computer users. It turns out that the myth of the socially
isolated computer enthusiast is just that – a myth (Hampton
and Wellman, 1999; 2000; Wellman and Hampton, 1999).
About 30% of Canadians claim to belong to churches, synagogues,
mosques, and temples. Membership is concentrated among people 35
years of age and older, and especially among people 55 years of
age and older. Only about 15% of Canadians under the age of 35 say
they attend church, etc., weekly (Bibby, 2001: 128, 132). Set beside
these figures, it is surprising that almost 24% of online daters
say they belong to churches, etc. That is because more than half
of online daters are under the age of 35, compared to just 29% of
the population. It seems that online daters are more likely to belong
to churches, etc., than non-online daters of the same age.
Additional evidence of sociability comes from a question on club
membership. Respondents were asked to indicate whether they were
“a member of any clubs, such as a bridge club or athletic
club, within the past year.” Fully 41% of respondents said
they belonged to such clubs. Of those who said they belonged to
such clubs, 61% said they belonged to more than one. In striking
contrast, a recent Statistics Canada study shows that only 18% of
Canadians aged 15 and over belonged to one or more “sports
and recreation organizations” (Hall et al., 1998: 43).
When respondents were asked how often they visit family or distant
relatives in a typical month, only 18% replied that they do not
visit them even once. This cannot be considered a high figure in
a society with high geographical mobility. In Canada today, people
often live a considerable distance from family members and cannot
visit regularly. More than 82% of online daters visit family or
relatives at least once a month and 39% visit them weekly or more
often.
Finally, respondents were asked how often they go out with one
or more people for social or leisure activities in a typical month.
Only 4% said they typically do not go out with others at all. Roughly
speaking, a quarter of respondents go out with others 0 to 2 times
per month, a quarter go out 3 to 4 times a month, a quarter go out
5 to 8 times a month, and a quarter go out 9 or more times a month.
So, on average, online daters go out for social and leisure activities
with others a lot. Some 53% typically go out with others for social
or leisure
activities more than once a week.
It is interesting to compare these results with comparable data
from the telephone survey. About 86% of respondents in the telephone
survey said they have never read personal or dating ads on the Web
or “checked out” an online dating site. These people
are much more likely than online daters to belong to a religious
organization (40% vs. 24%) and visit their families and relatives
one or more times per week (60% vs. 39%). However, Internet users
who have never read personal or dating ads on the Web or checked
out an online dating site are somewhat less likely than online daters
to belong to a club (37% vs. 42%). They are also somewhat less likely
to go out once a week or more for social or leisure activities (68%
vs. 65%; see Table 4). Thus, online daters are less sociable in
terms of religious and family activities but more sociable in terms
of friendship and intimate activities.
Sociable people tend to be self-confident. It should therefore
come as no surprise that online daters are, in general, a very self-confident
group. Specifically, 70% of respondents said they would feel comfortable
making a speech in public. Of these, 45% said they would feel very
comfortable. Only 30% of respondents said they would feel uncomfortable
making a speech in public. Of these, 36% said they would feel very
uncomfortable.
Respondents were also asked about how others see them: “In
terms of your personality, how do you think that people who know
you well would rank your self-confidence, say, on a scale from 0
to 6, where 0 is not self-confident and 6 is very self-confident?”
Only 5% of respondents answered in the “not self-confident”
range (0-2). Another 10% gave a neutral response (3). Fully 86%
of respondents answered in the “self-confident” range
(4-6).
In terms of self-confidence, Internet users who have not read
personal or dating ads on the Web and have not checked out an online
dating site are slightly more self-confident than online daters.
75% of Internet users who have not read personal or dating ads on
the Web or checked out an online dating site said they would feel
comfortable making a speech in public and 89% said that others regard
them as self-confident.
In sum, the picture that emerges from these data goes a long way
toward dispelling the myth of the online dater as a social isolate
lacking social skills. On the whole, online daters are joiners.
They often socialize with family and friends. They see themselves
as self-confident. And they believe others see them that way. Although
Internet users who have not read personal or dating ads on the Web
or checked out an online dating site differ from online daters in
some ways, the two groups differ little in terms of overall sociability
and self-confidence.

The Pros and Cons of Online Dating
People use online dating for a variety of reasons. Allowing multiple
responses, the online daters we sampled often use online dating
service to meet someone (78%), find someone for a long-term relationship
(58%), find sexual partners (43%), out of curiosity or fun with
no intention of making face-to-face contact (41%), for casual online
chatting and flirting (36%), and to find a possible marriage partner
(31%).
More than a million Canadians over the age of 17 have at least
visited an online dating site. (21.9 million Canadians over the
age of 17 times 39.1% Internet users times 13% of respondents in
the telephone survey who said they had at least visited an online
dating site equals 1.1 million people.) What do these people see
as the main advantages and disadvantages of online dating? Respondents
were asked to evaluate nine possible advantages of online dating
on a scale from 0 to 6. We calculated the percentage of respondents
who gave each item a score between 4 and 6. For online daters, and
allowing multiple responses, the three main advantages of online
dating are as follows:
- It creates the opportunity to meet people one would otherwise
never meet (89% of respondents gave this item a score of 4 to
6).
- It offers privacy and confidentiality (75% of respondents gave
this item a score of 4 to 6).
- It’s a lot more convenient than other ways of trying
to meet people (74% of respondents gave this item a score of 4
to 6).
We conducted 11 in-depth telephone interviews of online survey
respondents. When asked, “What prompted you to use online
dating?” they virtually unanimously stressed its convenience
and the way it allows users to be selective. Typically, one woman
in her 20s from Montreal said: “I feel that online I can find
someone more compatible because I’m very much into the computer
field and if someone has an ad up on the Internet that means that
he knows how to use a computer…[Also] you can get to know
the person first [before dating] and sometimes see a picture, which
helps.” In the words of a Toronto man, also in his 20s: “You
see right away if you have some compatibility. It’s not like
a random chance where you walk into a bar. You know right away if
they’re a smoker or a non-smoker, you know if they participate
in some of the same activities you participate in. Some of them
have photos. You can see if there’s a physical attraction.
Quite a long list! You can assess the person more easily.”
Or as a woman in her 30s from Calgary put it: “You don’t
have to have these lengthy, drawn-out conversations at a bar with
one person. Via the Internet you can start up five or six or seven
different conversations with people and kind of weed them out.”
Respondents were also presented with a list of five possible disadvantages
of online dating. The two biggest disadvantages:
- People online might not tell you the truth about themselves.
82% of online daters found this a big disadvantage. Women were
significantly more likely than men to find this a big disadvantage.
There were no other noteworthy differences between subgroups.
- The people you meet online might be hiding something. 72% of
online daters found this a big disadvantage. Again, women were
significantly more likely than men to find this a big disadvantage
and there were no other noteworthy differences between subgroups.
The 11 people interviewed in depth agreed unanimously that the
number one disadvantage of online dating is that some people misrepresent
themselves. As one respondent put it when asked about the disadvantages
of online dating: “I can’t really think of any [disadvantages]
other than a few people will, shall I say, exaggerate the truth.”

Contact, Meeting, and Misrepresentation
Some people read online personal ads merely for fun, out of curiosity,
or to engage in erotic verbal fantasies with no intention of meeeir
correspondents. Over a third of our online survey respondents said
“chatting and flirting” are important reasons why they
use online dating services.
Chatters and flirters aside, other people actually meet one or
more correspondents face-to-face. Let us now see how often people
establish contact with others through online dating services and
how often they meet face-to-face. We then discuss misrepresentation
in online contacts.
- Contact. Respondents in the online survey were asked
how many people they had contacted by e-mail or other means as
a result of an online personal ad or dating service. They were
also asked how many people had contacted them. Nearly a quarter
of respondents never initiated a contact. Over a third initiated
1-5 contacts. Nearly a fifth initiated 6-10 contacts and just
over a fifth initiated more than 10 contacts. Women were more
likely than men to be contacted by others. Thus, nearly 16% of
men but only about 12% of women had never been contacted. At the
other extreme, 3% of men but nearly 12% of women had been contacted
more than 50 times.
- Meeting. We asked respondents how many people they
had asked to meet in person as a result of online dating and how
many people had asked to meet them. About a quarter of respondents
said they requested no meetings with others and about half said
they requested meetings with 1 to 5 other people. The remainder
said they requested meetings with more than five other people.
The figures are much the same for meetings requested by others.
In both cases, the median number of requested meetings is 2. About
2% more men than women asked to meet others and 8% more women
than men were asked to meet by others.
How many people actually meet face-to-face as a result of using
online dating services? A third of respondents reported no face-to-face
meetings as a result of online dating. Nearly half reported 1
to 5 face-to-face meetings and nearly a fifth reported more than
five face-to-face meetings. The median number of face-to-face
meetings is 2. Men reported fewer than 2% more face-to-face meetings
than women.
About two-thirds of online daters exchanged pictures and 86% talked
on the phone before agreeing to go out on a date. Some 55% of
respondents spoke on the phone three or more times before first
getting together with someone they met online. Only 2% of respondents
met face-to-face the same day they established contact. About
a third met within a week and a quarter within two weeks of first
contact, the remaining 40% taking more than two weeks to meet.
This suggests that most respondents approach online dating cautiously,
taking the time to collect information and grow comfortable before
going out on a first date. On the other hand, a minority is quick
– in our judgment, too quick – to date.
- Misrepresentation. People do not always give accurate
information when they place personal ads online. Some people misrepresent
themselves to stimulate interest. In the online survey, people
who had placed personal ads were asked if they had ever given
inaccurate information about their appearance, job, education,
income, age, marital status, interests and hobbies, and whether
they have children. Multiple responses were allowed. Over a quarter
of respondents said they had misrepresented themselves.
This is a somewhat smaller percentage than we expected to find.
We were also somewhat surprised not to discover big differences
between men and women in their propensity to misrepresent themselves.
The only sex difference worth mentioning is that slightly more
men than women (11% vs. 8%) misrepresented their marital status.
Age is the number one issue people misrepresent. Fourteen per
cent of respondents said they had misrepresented their age. Tied
for the number two spot as topics of misrepresentation are marital
status and appearance (10% each).

Some Consequences of Online Dating
We asked respondents about the kinds of relationships they formed
with people they met online. Multiple responses were allowed.
/> Of those who met other online daters face-to-face, 63% had sex
with at least one person they met online. Having sex with a person
first encountered online is somewhat more likely for men than women
(66% vs. 58%) and for Canadians living in the East than those living
in the West. Thus, 69% of Atlantic Canadians, 67% of (mainly Anglophone)
Quebecers, 65% of Ontarians, but only 60% of respondents from the
Prairies and British Columbia say they have had sex with someone
they met online. A higher proportion of gay men (79%) than heterosexuals
(62%) and lesbians (61%) said they had sex with people they meet
online. As far as age is concerned, it is people in their 40s who
are most likely to have sex with someone they met online (67%) and
people under the age of 25 who are least likely to do so (58%).
Sex aside, 60% of those who met other online daters face-to-face
formed at least one long-term friendship. 37% met at least one person
they regarded as a “partner.” 3% met someone they eventually
married. The probability of marrying someone whom one first encounters
online falls with age. The people most likely to marry a person
first encountered online are in their 20s. The people least likely
to do so are more than 39 years old. The probability of marrying
an online date is not associated with one’s income or education.
However, the people most likely to marry someone they met online
tend to live in small towns near major cities or in the suburbs
of major cities. Such people compose 25% of all online daters but
56% of online daters who married someone they met through an online
dating service.
What pre-dating practices are associated with the establishment
of long-term relationships among online daters? We asked respondents:
“How many, if any, of the people that you have met as a result
of on-line dating have become a long-term friend, a partner or a
spouse?” Our data show that people who form long-term relationships
are more likely to take a long time to get to know other people
online. They are also more likely to engage in a protracted exchange
of information and emotion before the first date. Specifically,
people who find long-term friends, partners, and spouses online
are more likely than others to send photos to people they eventually
date, see photos of those people, talk to them on the phone ten
or more times, and wait more than a month before first meeting them.
It may be that daters looking for long-term relationships are generally
more selective than daters looking for casual relationships. It
may also be that people who spend more time getting to know others
before meeting them face-to-face inadvertently increase the chance
of finding a good match and therefore forming a long-term relationship.
In either case, the duration and intensity of predating “courtships”
is likely to be greater for people who eventually form long-term
relationships.
Despite the apparently high “success rate” of online
daters, 42% of people who went out on a date with someone they met
online reported at least one bad experience on a date. For 38% of
people who went out on a date, the bad experience merely involved
“disappointment” at least once. Another 33% simply “felt
uncomfortable” at least once. More seriously, 10% said they
felt “frightened” at least once and 26% said they were
“pestered” at least once after a date. (Multiple responses
were allowed.)
It is important to note that the 10% of daters who said they were
frightened at least once on a date were not frightened enough to
change their positive opinion about online dating in general. There
was no difference in attitude toward online dating between people
who were frightened and those who were never frightened. The same
finding – no difference in attitude toward online dating –
held for the 26% of daters who reported being pestered at least
once after a date. It also held for men and women considered separately.
We conclude that, in the great majority of cases, the more serious
negative experiences reported by our respondents were not all that
serious.
They were almost certainly less common than the kinds of negative
experiences people have during conventional dates. For example,
one nationwide survey of dating in Canadian universities found that,
in the year preceding the survey, more than half the men and women
who dated were insulted or sworn at by a date and more than half
experienced a date throwing, smashing or kicking something. Nearly
12% of men and 20% of women were pushed, grabbed or shoved by a
date in the year preceding the survey (DeKeseredy and Schwartz,
1998: 60). Seen in this context, it is quite possible that online
dating is safer than conventional dating. That was certainly the
strong consensus of the 11 online daters we interviewed in depth.
“It just seems safer doing it this way…Online dating
gives you more control,” said one woman in her 40s from northern
Ontario. When asked whether she would recommend online dating to
others, a woman in her 30s from Calgary replied: “Oh, definitely,
yes. Because it’s safe…It’s risk free. You can
get to know somebody anonymously before you meet them.” These
responses must be taken with a grain of salt because the 11 individuals
interviewed in depth were selected on the grounds they thought Internet
dating is “a great way to meet people.” Still, if seen
in the context of other data presented above, it seems reasonable
to conclude that Internet dating is rarely the risky activity sometimes
portrayed by the mass media.

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